I have heard the myriad of ways a woman can know that a man is ‘just not that into her’. Do men simply just not care if a woman is or is not ‘into him’?  Regardless, as to whether or not men actually care about this small inconsequential bit of knowledge, I care, and men should.  As a single woman, when I am definitely NOT into a man, and they blindly continue their pursuit, at the least it’s annoying,  and at most it’s a HUGE turn-off.  So to men everywhere, this is the one fact that I feel every man and woman should know…

Women and men alike, always want what they can’t have.~ Yes. It’s true fellas.

Haven’t you noticed that when you are calling and checking up on her 24 hours a day, she is short and irritable with you, if she answers at all?  But, if you are out with friends or simply busy, that is when they will call you.

Yes, it is a game. A game ALL of us play.

Another telltale sign of blatant disinterest is this. While kissing, if her eyes remain open and her arms are loosely wrapped or simply hanging by her side- chances are good that she would like to be anywhere but there.

When kissing her, always pay attention to her response.  If she seems to pull farther away from you, the closer you get- shes just not that into you.

If it seems that she has stopped trying to impress you with her style when out on the town- shes just not that into you.

If suddenly she would rather talk on the phone with her friends instead of spending time with you= shes just not that into you.