DISTANCE & A MAN’S HEART~ from a woman’s perspective…

DISTANCE & A MAN’S HEART~ from a woman’s perspective…

All I can say is that distance made my heart grow fonder.

Not your typical romance novel, but it’s in the same genre.

Just the smell of you can stimulate my Heart.

Just the thought of you inspires My every thought.

You  Somehow turned me into a respectable man, all of my demons disappeared, like the beer in my can.

Love means nothing unless it’s shown through actions. Otherwise, it’s just a word, that can drive men to distraction.

What you give me is much more than satisfaction, it can only be described as pure sexual attraction.

The most slamming girl cannot compete with you, nothing fazes me now except other men’s eyes on you.


My knee’s start to quiver, and I begin to shake, the emotions running through me feel very close to hate.


Hell yes, I would take that cat’s last breath, if he even partially begins to stare at Your breasts.

I trust you with all of my heart, so please baby girl, don’t tear my trust apart.

I was not living before, yet now that I’ve met you, my cluttered life no longer feels askew.

A new beginning, a fresh start, and it’s all because I gave you my 💙.

I love my life.

Get Busy Living, or get busy dying…

Get Busy Living, or get busy dying…

The time is NOW!! You know, carpe diem. YOLO. You already know all the “life is short” mottos. To be honest, in my opinion, they’re cheesy. They are cheesy because they are true.

The time is now my friend, to use the days wisely, whatever season you are in. Specifically speaking, if you’re in a very quiet and slow season take advantage of that time and use it!

Travel, see the world, do something you wouldn’t normally do. Netflix and relaxation can happen anytime; seeing the world is not always an option.

The time is now to stop vicariously living through others blogs, Instagram stories, or Snapchats, but to buy that plane ticket and seek out adventure. Instead of wishing to be at someplace, MAKE. IT HAPPEN. You’re only young once, you only have so many quiet seasons in your life, so why waste them doing what you usually would be doing when you’re busy?

Bars are so last week.

The time is now my friend to get out of your safe zone and do something that scares you. Do something that makes you feel alive, not trapped in your everyday routine. You will never regret traveling.

The time is now to explore my friend. Explore a bit on your own; learn how to survive by yourself. Learn to step away from technology and take advantage of the beautiful world we live in by looking up and not down on that stupid piece of technology that corrupts our daily lives. No more Pinterest, no more Google, no more wishing. If you want it bad enough, it can and will happen! You’re young and possibly single, If single, ENJOY THAT FREEDOM OF OPPORTUNITY. Stop wishing for a relationship, stop wishing for marriage, and asking all the “what if’s.”

Live in the present. Seize the freaking day because THE TIME IS NOW!

Ready, set, LIVE!!!

 Fake Friend, heed my advice…

 Fake Friend, heed my advice…

I know that you will immediately show or read this to him, your personal puppet master, yet it would be a grave disservice for me to not pass on this small, yet a personally hard-earned bit of wisdom.

First, a confession.  I admit that I fell for your performance; hook, line, and sinker. BRAVO!  I believed you.  I believed that you and I were actually friends; real friends- not pretend ones. Imagine my surprise upon realizing that our every interaction had been cleverly choreographed by your man, then carried out by you.  Betrayal and lies hurt, I need you to realize this.  You, his personal puppet, should be hurt as well. Though you were acting and doing as you were told, that in of itself is a type of betrayal.

So, despite your betrayal, here’s some advice, one woman to another…
Every aspect of your life will change for the better once you begin to make up your own mind and start making your own decisions.  Figure out who you are as a woman, what you like, and who you like; using no one’s opinion other than your own. I’m telling you this because I genuinely liked you and I hoped to see you genuinely happy one day.
Remember, we only get this one, small, a speck of time to live our lives, and to try to get it right.
On your deathbed, wouldn’t you prefer to reflect on all the choices that you made, because you chose to make them?  Or would you prefer to reflect back on all the choices and decisions made for you, by someone else?
Even as I write this, I know that you may ignore my advice. I am okay with that.  I feel better knowing that I tried. The rest is up to you.  I wish nothing but the best for you, in every area of your life.  I hope that one day you will wish the same for yourself, so that you may know true happiness and contentment.

The Spider

The Spider

A two-legged spider came out of the blue, like a prizefighter, looking to duel.

SHE spun her web without emotion; a trap of pain, chaos, and dysfunction.

Her wicked beauty led me in, I had no clue this was the beginning of the end.

SHE wrapped me up in lies and deceit, and she left me hanging until it was time to eat.

SHE drained my heart and left my soul to die.

Then coldly she threw what was left to the side.

SHE will repair her web, till it looks like new, and lay in wait for the next to fool.

So be real careful, look before you leap, stay away from the web where this spider does creep.

♡She Is Just NOT That Into You♡

♡She Is Just NOT That Into You♡


I have heard the myriad of ways a woman can know that a man is ‘just not that into her’. Do men simply just not care if a woman is or is not ‘into him’?  Regardless, as to whether or not men actually care about this small inconsequential bit of knowledge, I care, and men should.  As a single woman, when I am definitely NOT into a man, and they blindly continue their pursuit, at the least it’s annoying,  and at most it’s a HUGE turn-off.  So to men everywhere, this is the one fact that I feel every man and woman should know…

Women and men alike, always want what they can’t have.~ Yes. It’s true fellas.

Haven’t you noticed that when you are calling and checking up on her 24 hours a day, she is short and irritable with you, if she answers at all?  But, if you are out with friends or simply busy, that is when they will call you.

Yes, it is a game. A game ALL of us play.

Another telltale sign of blatant disinterest is this. While kissing, if her eyes remain open and her arms are loosely wrapped or simply hanging by her side- chances are good that she would like to be anywhere but there.

When kissing her, always pay attention to her response.  If she seems to pull farther away from you, the closer you get- shes just not that into you.

If it seems that she has stopped trying to impress you with her style when out on the town- shes just not that into you.

If suddenly she would rather talk on the phone with her friends instead of spending time with you= shes just not that into you.



Hello.Today was a cool day. I ate barbecue chicken for dinner. It rained. I played checkers. I took a shower. I looked out my window at the rain. I thought about home. I went to the bathroom 3 times today. I just passed gas. There is a spider in my window, I watched it eat a fly. I will watch ‘Fear Factor’ on  TV tonight. I wonder what you are doing right now. Someone needs to cut the grass outside. My roommate moved out. A guy just walked past my window. Remember when I cried at your house? I want to go home. Do you remember coming over to my apartment? I see birds eating outside. I see dead people. I see bees flying around a piece of cake someone threw on the ground. 154 people live in my dorm. One time I climbed on top of a car as it sped down the road. I got a rush from that. I once threw a dead possum onto a girl’s porch. Once I masterbated in the waiting room of a mental health facility. The sun is coming out. The sun will rise everyday. I can always count on the sun. Well, I hope you had a cool day, like me. I will call you Thursday. I love you  love me to.  M.I.



☆☆☆I stumbled upon this post and realized that I, myself have also questioned some of the same things. Anyway, I wanted to share it with you. ENJOY !     ☆☆☆

1 – How does wind blow snow in, but it requires a shovel to get the snow out?

2 – When did pizza companies stop putting real coupons on their boxes? These are the exact same deals on your website and commercials! Why are you needlessly murdering baby trees?

3 – I hate when people say “we are all the same level here” when we aren’t. You are a higher position and make more money. Telling me “we are all the same” to get me to do your work doesn’t work…

4 – Why do people allow others to tell their side of the story? It is so much easier to be right if people only hear your side.

5 – Maybe men wouldn’t be such pigs in the bathroom if our restrooms were as nice and opulent as the women’s are.

6 – Why have people started calling everyone “fam?” That shit is annoying.

7 – Why do people on Facebook call you “confrontational” for not agreeing with them and then they aggressively tell you why you are wrong and how you have no fucking clue what you are talking about and should shut up. Or does that only happen to me…

8 – So the UN is a peace keeping force made up of troops from the united nations that are never deployed to actually protect people by force. Got it.

9 – People hate Earth so much they are willing to go on a one way trip to Mars. Humans can’t even stand to be on a plane with each other for a few hours. How can we really expect these same humans to last months and even years together on a spaceship? Will anyone even make it if there is no more overhead baggage room and a fight breaks out?

10 – Why do women persist in telling us the reason they went on a shopping spree is because “there was a sale!” You aren’t fooling anyone ladies. We know there is ALWAYS A SALE!

11 – If a toy comes with hundreds of tiny pieces it is impossible to put together. Why don’t they just write that on the box??? IMPORTANT: THIS SHIT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO PUT TOGETHER. DON’T TRY.

12 – When you go to an “Asian restaurant” and you sniff the food like a dog to make sure you like it… you look like a dog. An actual dog. Stop trying to use chopsticks too if you don’t know how. It is embarrassing to your Asian companion… next time we’ll bring our substitute friend.

13 – Bloggers that email me for blogging advice and don’t hear what they wanted to hear are annoying. Particularly when they never respond back to you… not even with a “thank you.”




Your my diamond in the rough.

The sweet smell of rose amongst a dirty musk.

You’re a diamond, set on platinum.

You’re a Pile of carats. 

An undeniable attraction, my words can’t touch 

If I could alleviate your pain I would take it in a second.

Warmth moves over my body when you step in my direction.

The negative outlook, now you’re changing my perception.

More than beautiful, more like God’s divine invention.

Cause for you baby, I would stop the ruin.

Thoughts of you run through my mind like blood runs through my veins.

Everything you do is perfect, I would never give an order.

Walking in the desert, your my only drop of water.

I keep a hard front, but you just crossed the border.

Look into your eyes, I see a goddess.

Getting to my heart and defying all my logic.

Can’t figure it out. But whatever. I want you, got it?

Staring at you, it couldn’t get much better.

Feathers of a kind, that’s why we flock together.

If you dislike a word of this I hope you realize; whether hurricane or tsunami-

You’re my sunny weather girl.